Warmth, tenderness, playful, connecting deeply, relating physically & emotionally, being present, giving mutually, pleasuring & delighting together, feeling safe, knowing & being known, honoring & respecting.
Sex would be free from addiction, objectivity, or hidden agendas.
Sex would not be transactional or duty bound.
There would be no intrusive thoughts & no feelings of dread or fear before, during, or after sex.
One of my mindset shifts is that I can choose me, I can set boundaries, and I can say yes or no to sex without feeling guilt, shame, dread, or duty.
