- Are there any secrets you are keeping from me?
- Are there any lies you’re telling me?
- Have you acted out sexually in any capacity since the last poly (pornography, masturbated, had sexual contact w/anyone other than your wife)?
- Are you working on your recovery as you have told me?
- Do you love me?
I always ask the last question.
It is recommended to do the poly quarterly for the first year, twice a year the second year, and then once a year per Dr. Janice Caudill.
You will know the truth, and the truth will set you free. John 8:32 (CSB)
