1. I will give myself space & time to heal before I consider re-engaging in an intimate relationship with my husband, and I will not be pressured or guilted to “care take” or rush the deal.
2. I will allow myself to go slowly and consciously into the area of intimacy, by reading one of the recommended books as I continue to “wait and see.” If I see patterns of dishonesty emerging, I will remain grounded in my reality as I mindfully grow in this area.
“Successful long-term relationships are created through small gestures, small words, and small acts.” Dr. John Gottman
